Are you fully engaged?
Ann and I recently celebrated our 42nd wedding anniversary – not a particularly auspicious occasion, like a 50th or even a 25th (ours was a gala affair held in a mud and stone “hotel” in our remote village in Nepal). But I guess we unconsciously chose to do this one up in a big way. This year, we started “celebrating” in February, on our annual get-away-between-our-birthdays trip. We spent the weekend at a guesthouse in Seaside, Oregon, mostly reading aloud to each other the love letters we’d written before we were married. WARNING: Gentlemen, do not try this at

